Get The Result You Want!
Most of us have have experienced the frustration of others around us not doing it "right" in one form or the other. Often, this is a decision being made in the company, or by the staff, that you don't agree with. Perhaps it is a colleague that isn't willing to see things your way. We often are so attached to the "incorrect" handling of the issue, that it is difficult to move on. This is common and understandable, yet often keeps us stuck dealing with disappointment and misery. However, if you're like me, you realize that after a while, the only person suffering from holding on to this…. is you. Most of the others involved have likely moved on to the next issue. In this situation, I find it useful to ask a few questions of myself, once I'm in a space of calmness and willingness to be creative.
What is the THOUGHT that is making me so upset?
Is there any way that this COULD be good or useful for me?
How do I want to show up as a physician, even when I don't agree?
What part of this can I control?
How could I BEST make a difference in this outcome?
Usually the answers to these questions, help me adjust my attitudes toward those involved. I find I'm more effective at getting the results I want when I realize that the issue I don't agree with, doesn't have to stand in the way of me being effective and offering the best that I can be. This is a key point to understand, realizing that I can get the results I want EVEN in the midst of the current situation that isn't what I would've chosen. It can be challenging because we often take these things personally, rather than figuring out another way to accomplish what we want. My program gives you the tools to make this a reality, while helping you implement them for your INDIVIDUAL situation.
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